My grown adult children are

15 years apart when my son was 17 my daughter was 2 I never understood what they had in common to argue about I didn't know if she thought she was 17 or he thought he was 2 when he got of age he told me he never liked my spaghetti. I could understand that. Back then we only had tomato paste no prego or ragu sauce. But when my daughter said she never liked waffles I was shocked because I bought them a lot. I thought I was giving options. The dynamics of parenting